Healing Trauma: Rewrite Your Story

From shame and self-judgment to acceptance and resilience.

In-person therapy in Reno and telehealth throughout California & Nevada

A colorful pyramid diagram illustrating the hierarchy of human needs, including Food, Water, Rest at the base, Safety & Security, Love & Belonging, Self-esteem, and Self-Actualization at the top.

Trauma isn’t just big things: abuse, accidents, or loss. It’s anything that’s too much, too soon, or for too long.

Trauma can also look like:

  • A parent who expected constant perfection.

  • A parent who couldn’t see, hear, or validate you.

  • Being blamed for things beyond your control.

  • Growing up around anger, criticism, or rejection.

  • Having your needs & dreams ignored.

  • Being told not to feel, or that you feel too much.

  • Gender or sexuality shame.

  • Shame around your worth and values.


“It’s a joy to be hidden, and a disaster not to be found.”

— D.W. Winnicott

You don’t love wrong - you learned survival

  • + You keep ending up in familiar relationships, or acting reactively, unwillingly repeating patterns you want to outgrow.

    + You carry a quiet shame that convinces you are somehow unworthy of love or belonging.

    + You struggle to trust yourself, or to feel safe trusting others.

    + You long for closeness but get scared or pull away when it arrives.

    + Other therapies don’t address the depth and complexity of your story.

  • + Family-of-origin influences

    + Early trauma (including complex trauma)

    + Attachment styles

    + Intergenerational patterns

    + Collective & ancestral trauma

    + Patterns of reactivity, panic, and withdrawal in relationships

  • + Listening deeply to your story with empathy, without rushing or judgment.

    + Exploring how trauma shapes your relationships and learning ways to build new, supportive patterns.

    + Integrating body awareness and internal exploration to help you regulate emotions and feel grounded.

    + Supporting your nervous system and creating felt safety inside your body.

    + Cultivating self-compassion, trust, and a sense of authentic belonging.

    + Learning skills to manage triggers, set boundaries, and navigate relationships safely.

    + Understanding how trauma has shaped your patterns, reactions, and sense of self.

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